ਗੁਰ ਗਮ
GUR GAM


ਆਸਾ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥ ਹਮਾਰੀ ਪਿਆਰੀ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਧਾਰੀ ਗੁਰਿ ਨਿਮਖ ਨ ਮਨ ਤੇ  ਟਾਰੀ ਰੇ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਦਰਸਨ ਪਰਸਨ ਸਰਸਨ ਹਰਸਨ ਰੰਗਿ ਰੰਗੀ ਕਰਤਾਰੀ ਰੇ ॥੧॥ ਖਿਨੁ ਰਮ ਗੁਰ ਗਮ
 ਹਰਿ ਦਮ ਨਹ ਜਮ ਹਰਿ ਕੰਠਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਉਰਿ ਹਾਰੀ ਰੇ ॥੨॥੫॥੧੩੪॥ (sggs 404).
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The SGGS (Sri Guru Granth Sahib) asserts that one meets the Satguru with the Grace of God. In other words, when one is ready, God's Grace dawns on Him and "then the mortal automatically meets the Satguru".

The flip side is that - as again asserted in the Gurbani (SGGS) - one cannot meet or realize God without the Grace of the Satguru! In other words, God leads us to the Satguru, and the Satguru leads us to the Lord!

Accordingly, the Guru, the abode of virtues, is given the pride of place in the Gurbani and other eastern spiritual traditions and is revered as God Himself. Thus, in nutshell, the Gurbani's edict is that the Divine Grace ("Gur-Prasaad", "Nadar", or "Kirpaa") is essential in spiritual Realization.

If the Guru / God "are one and the same, pervading and permeating amongst all", which means we all have the Guru at this very moment, whether we know it or not. In other words, the Guru is within, not the physical presence. Those who know or have realized the Satguru within are very "fortunate - ਵਡਭਾਗੀ" ones. Those of us who don't know (or have not realized) yet, have our work cut out for us. The Gurbani reminds us not to forget that we are never alone on this journey - Guru / God is always with us. We need to allow Him to take our hands.

In short, its of paramount importance to become Guruward. In other words, to rise to the Guru is tremendously stressed in the Gurbani. In this context, the Gurbani urges us becoming "Gur Gam" - gur gm. How to become "Gur Gam" is also shown in the Gurbani.

First, what is "Gur Gam"? "Gur" and "Gam", both are Sanskrit terms. The term "Gur" is used for both God and the Guru in the Gurbani. The term "Gam" is not easy to translate in English. Its closest English meaning could be summarized as follows: to go, to depart, to cohabit, to mount, to ascend; reach or approach (ਪਹੁੰਚ), arrival, access, admittance, acquaintance, range, expanse, and so on.

Second, who is the Guru in Sikhi? Without knowing who the Guru is, how can one become "Gur Gam"? Without knowing who the Guru is, one may become Bharam Gam (Bharam = doubt), but not "Gur Gam"! This topic has been covered in other articles. Briefly, our Guru in Sikhi is the Shabad. Shabad was Baabaa Nanak's Guru, and so the Shabad is our Guru too. Physical bodies are temporary, thereby they come and go. But not the Shabad. For the physical form howsoever unique it may be is finite and changeful, while the Shabad is Eternal, Infinite, Immortal, Unchanging, and so on. Any number of finite forms (one form alone or many forms combined) cannot be equal to the Infinite. So Guru Gobind Singh Ji urged us to know that the Shabad-Guru is our Guru. Therefore, it is highly stressed in the Gurbani to be attuned to the Shabad, to be in harmony with the Shabad, and to feel the Shabad's vibration - Shabad Bhagti or Gur Bhagti .

During "Sidh Gosti" (also spelt Sidh Gost etc.), Sidhas posed many questions to Baabaa Nanak. Three of those questions were as follows: "Who is your Guru? How do you become a disciple? Where does the Shabad reside?" Baabaa Nanak's answers were as follows (ਰਾਮਕਲੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੧ ਸਿਧ ਗੋਸਟਿ ):

Third, "why do we need to become Gur Gam?", one may inquire. As indicated in the above verses, "Without the Satguru, no one has obtained God". Further, as repeatedly indicated in the Gurbani, without the Guru, there is no Aatam-Giaan (spiritual Knowledge) necessary to remove the filth of egotism (Haume). Thus, one's spiritual life without a Guru is like the life of a child without a mother. In nutshell, since the Guru "permeates the nucleus" of our very Being, He needs to be realized within, here and now - the state of intuitive Awareness.

Fourth, "how can one become Gur Gam?", one may ask. The Gurbani in the following Shabad, for example, reveals to us how we all can become "Gur Gam". An attempt is made to very briefly reflect on its each verse.

ਹਮਾਰੀ ਪਿਆਰੀ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਧਾਰੀ ਗੁਰਿ ਨਿਮਖ ਨ ਮਨ ਤੇ  ਟਾਰੀ ਰੇ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥: Hamaaree piaaree amrit dhaaree gur nimakh na man te taaree re ||1|| rahaaou ||:

This Gur-Shabad reveals to us as to why the Shabad-Gurbani is given so much importance in the Sikhi. The fifth Guru Arjan Dev Jee says here that this Bani - pronounced Baanee - is very dear to me (ਹਮਾਰੀ ਪਿਆਰੀ). And that it is the stream of Amrit (Nectar, Immortality, etc.) - ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਧਾਰੀ. He further states that (with the Guru's Grace) I have not let my mind forget it even for a moment - ਗੁਰਿ ਨਿਮਖ ਨ ਮਨ ਤੇ  ਟਾਰੀ ਰੇ.

The Shabad-Gurbani is so dear to the Gurus that it is called "ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਧਾਰੀ " (the stream of Amrit, which bestows one spiritual life or Aatamic Jeevan). Which the Gurus never held back from the mind even for an instant. Now perhaps we can appreciate as to why we are urged to know it as our Guru.

ਦਰਸਨ ਪਰਸਨ ਸਰਸਨ ਹਰਸਨ ਰੰਗਿ ਰੰਗੀ ਕਰਤਾਰੀ ਰੇ ॥੧॥: Darasan parasan sarasan harasan rang rangee karataaree re ||1||:

In this verse, there are four fantastic Words - (ਦਰਸਨ), then Parasan (ਪਰਸਨ), then Sarasan (ਸਰਸਨ), and then Harasan (ਹਰਸਨ). Darasan (ਦਰਸਨ simply indicates an audience with or a Vision of the Divine or of the Holy. Parasan (ਪਰਸਨ) indicates touch or Shoh (ਛੋਹ). Sarasan (ਸਰਸਨ) indicates sweetness (spiritual sweetness), and Harasan (ਹਰਸਨ) indicates delight or Anand (spiritual bliss). Then the Guru Sahib says that it is imbued with the Creator's Love - ਰੰਗਿ ਰੰਗੀ ਕਰਤਾਰੀ ਰੇ.

As we can see, first comes Darasan (ਦਰਸਨ), then Parasan (ਪਰਸਨ), then Sarasan (ਸਰਸਨ), and then Harasan (ਹਰਸਨ). It implies that first we need to see the Gurbani, then when we read it with proper understanding, then it touches our very Being (ਛੋਹ). Then we are spiritually Sweetened and Delighted (Anand).

Through the power and vibration of the Darasan (or Darshan), the Guru is able to communicate with us, leading to our spiritual Unfoldment. How effective the communication is, it depends on how inwardly we are connected, linked or hooked in Him. If we don't have open lines, then there will not be much of Darasan (ਦਰਸਨ), Parasan (ਪਰਸਨ), Sarasan (ਸਰਸਨ), and Harasan (ਹਰਸਨ). Once we take on the diligent study of the Gur-Shabad with deep Vichaar (reflection, contemplation, implementation, etc.), then one ought to experience the Darasan (ਦਰਸਨ), and Parasan (ਪਰਸਨ). Then we taste the spiritual sweetness, followed by the spiritual Delight (Anand) - Sarasan (ਸਰਸਨ), and Harasan (ਹਰਸਨ).

ਖਿਨੁ ਰਮ ਗੁਰ ਗਮ  ਹਰਿ ਦਮ ਨਹ ਜਮ ਹਰਿ ਕੰਠਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਉਰਿ ਹਾਰੀ ਰੇ ॥੨॥੫॥੧੩੪॥: Khin ram gur gam har dam nah jam har kanth Nanak ouri haaree re ||2 ||5||134||:

In this last verse, the Guru Sahib tells us that chanting it even for a moment (ਖਿਨੁ ਰਮ), one becomes gur gm; meditating on it each breath, one becomes free of the fear of death - one becomes free of birth and death, or one is not trapped by the Messenger of Death (ਹਰਿ ਦਮ ਨਹ ਜਮ). Says Nanak, keep this Lord's (Word, Speech, Kathaa, etc.) in Kanth (voice, throat, ਰਸਨਾ or Rasanaa, etc.) as a garland placed around the neck.

Last but not least, the SGGS tells us to do what pleases the Guru - Gur kee Kaar (ਗੁਰ ਕੀ ਕਾਰ). Gur kee Kaar is essentially to act or do good deeds in accordance with the Gurmat (Teaching of the Shabad-Guru, SGGS), whereby we allow the Guru to guide our Karma.

Here in the foregoing verses, the Guru also tells us what Kaar is good. The Gurbani also urges us to serve the Guru. It also shows us how to serve Him. According to the Gurbani, the way to serve the Guru is through Naam-Simran (meditation on the Lord's Name). The Gurbani also time and again tells us that mere talk, reading or listening to the recitation of the Gurbani without understanding will not do the trick. Also, in this context, it repeatedly tells us that empty rituals, religious garbs, etc., will not do the trick either.

As a carpenter makes objects out of rough-hewn wood, similarly, the Guru shapes his disciple - Sikh - into a sterling devotee who experiences lasting Joy in the performance of Eternal Service to the Lord. He endows him with spiritual Knowledge (Aatamic-Giaan), imparts virtues that are necessary for spiritual growth to rid the mind of its dross ("ਚਿਤ ਕਠੋਰ", false ego-sense, Haume, etc.), leads him to learn to identify with the intuitive nature of his own mind, and so on.

But the question is, why the majority of us (over 99.9 percent category) don't get to realize the Satguru ? To put it otherwise, why the majority of us don't become Gur Gam ? The Gurbani answers this qustion in the following Shabad.

— T. Singh
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Updated on Thursday, March 12, 2009 7:47 PM (PST)

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