"The Wife Gives Birth To Her Husband....The Son Marries His Mother...."

The wife gives birth to her husband. The son makes his father play. (The mother)
without breasts, suckles milk. ||1|| Behold, people! This is how it is in the (Dark Age of)
Kali Yuga. The son marries his mother. ||1||Pause|| Without feet, (the mortal) jumps.
Without a mouth, (he) bursts into laughter. Without feeling sleepy, (he) lays down and
sleeps. Without a churning vessel, (he) churns the milk. ||2|| Without udders, the cow
gives milk. Without traveling, a long journey is made. Without the True Guru, the
path is not found. Kabeer utters this understanding. ||3||3|| (sggs 1194).
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The foregoing Shabad is of Bhagat Kabeer Jee in Raga (pronounced Raaga) Basant on page 1194 of the SGGS (Sri Guru Granth Sahib). Alike many other Shabads of Bhagat Kabeer Jee throughout the SGGS, his this Shabad is also impregnated with spiritual suggestions. He draws our attention to his extraordinary statements in this Shabad and would like us to understand their proper purport. The following is the full text of this Shabad, first with just word-meaning in English (which, by the way, is not its true spiritual gist), followed by an attempt to understand its deeper crux.

In this entire Shabad, Bhagat Kabeer Jee is describing the sorry plight of the Kali Yugee Jeeva (individual beings of Kali Yuga) caught in the spell or influence of Maya (" kil ko Bwau: Kali Ko Bhaaou"). With this in mind, it would become relatively easier to appreciate the inner message of this Shabad.

First, before attempting to reflect on this Shabad, allow to hit upon as to why Bhagat Kabeer Jee used seemingly contradictory or seemingly unusual statements in some of his Shabads. From ancient time, Mahaatamaas (Great Souls) in India have been using such statements as a teaching tool to help seekers break free from the chains of their ignorance and thus enlighten them. In addition to this kind of teaching, in some traditions Mahaatamaas speak to seekers in outwardly paradoxical instructions or in questions with no right answer. The idea behind all these different traditions of teaching is to make or trick the disciple into surrendering his conditioned and narrow intellect and making his contact with the Unconditioned Consciousness beyond. Mahaatamaans thus teach using various tools to clearly show how we could all lift ourselves and live the life that is for most of us beyond our wildest imagination. Yet it all begins with the expanded vision (mind's expansiveness), and development of spiritual Understanding.

joie Ksmu hY jwieAw ]pUiq bwpu KylwieAw ]ibnu sRvxw KIru iplwieAw ]1]: Joi khasam hai jaaiaa. Poot baap khelaaiaa. Bin sravanaa kheer pilaaiaa ||1||: The wife gives birth to her husband. The son makes his father play. (The mother) without breasts, suckles milk. ||1||>>>>Consider Maya to be the female gender (Istaree Ling) and Mann (the mind) to be the male gender (Purash Ling). Maya gives birth to the mind (the sense of false ego or Haume). The reason the mind is called "husband" is that, even though Maya gives birth to the mind, but it's the mind that turns around and enjoys Maya! This is the wife's giving birth to her husband. Caught in the vertex of Maya (duality or relativist consciousness), the mind ("Poot" = the son) cradles or leads his father ("Baap" = the Jeevaatmaan) in the worldly play. Under the influence of Maya, the mind nurses the defiled senses. This is the woman's nursing of her baby without breast.

Now, let's attempt to relate the foregoing to the current world situation on a gross material level. Traditionally, the man's role was to be the breadwinner of his family and the woman's role was to manage the house. But due to the industrialization, "globalization", ever-increasing worldly desires, greed, envy etc., these traditional roles are reversed. Also, traditionally son (or children) used to listen to and obey his father (i.e., parents). Nowadays, children are seen quarreling with their parents. Furthermore, in old days, mothers used to breast-feed their infants. This ancient practice is not very popular any more. Consequently, these days babies are fed on the "formula" milk sold in the food stores — they are being nursed without the mother's breast!

dyKhu logw kil ko Bwau ]suiq muklweI ApnI mwau ]1] rhwau ]: Dekhahu logaa kali ko bhaaou. Sut mukalaaee apanee maaou ||1|| Rahaaou ||: Behold, people! This is how it is in the (Dark Age of) Kali Yuga. The son marries his mother. ||1||Pause|| >>>> As mentioned earlier, in his entire Shabad, Bhagat Kabeer Jee is describing the plight of the Kali Yugee Jeevas (individual beings of Kali Yuga) caught in the vertex of Maya. This central theme of this Shabad or the intent of Bhagat Kabeer Jee is indicated by this "Rahaaou" verse. Here Bhagat Kabeer Jee makes an another seemingly odd statement: "The son marries his mother." This statement essentially indicates as to how the Mayaic mind (that mind which is influenced by Maya consciousness) is wedded to his mother Maya. Here Maya is indicated to be the mother of the mind, because as stated earlier, Maya gives birth to the mind. Thus, it's said that "The son marries his mother."

Now, let's attempt to relate the foregoing to the current world situation on a gross material plane. Because of the unnatural lifestyle of rat-race, decline in moral values and the principles of Dharma, the family fabric is deteriorating (increase in divorce rate, number of children born out of wedlock etc.) throughout the world. In such chaotic social environment, it's not always possible to know upfront about the person one is going out with. As a result, there have been reports (especially in the west) of people getting involved with their own blood-relations, including even mothers. To avoid these sorts of problems as much as possible, many governments require blood test prior to issuing a marriage license to any couple wanting to marry.

pgw ibnu hurIAw mwrqw]bdnY ibnu iKr iKr hwsqw ]indRw ibnu nru pY sovY ]ibnu bwsn KIru iblovY ]2]: Pagaa bin hureeaa maarataa. Badanai bin khir khir haasataa. Nidraa bin nar pai sovai. Bin baasan kheer bilovai ||2||: Without feet, (the mortal) jumps. Without a mouth, (he) bursts into laughter. Without feeling sleepy, (he) lays down and sleeps. Without a churning vessel, (he) churns the milk. ||2|| >>>> Here we have four more interesting statements! The mind has no legs, but still it jumps (from one thought to the other) and wanders around! The mind has no mouth, but still it laughs around! The mind is asleep, fascinated by Maya. Although in it's True Nature as "Joti-Svaroopa", the mind was not to fall asleep to Maya's fascination, but on account of the influence of Maya in this Kali Yuga (" kil ko Bwau: Kali Ko Bhaaou"), the mind has forgotten it's True Nature and has fallen to an endless sleep of illusion. The man's wandering mind builds castles in the air. This is his churning of the milk without a churning vessel.

Now, let's attempt to relate the foregoing to the current world situation on a gross material level. Even if someone for some reason has lost his legs, nowadays he can still walk using the artificial legs (as well other limbs of the body can also be replaced). Those who have lost their natural voice, can communicate using many innovative devices available in the market. People can fall a sleep using sleeping-pills. In dairy farms, the milk is being churned without traditional Madhaanee and Dadhoonee (traditional milk-churning apparatus).

ibnu AsQn gaU lvyrI ]pYfy ibnu bwt GnyrI ]ibnu siqgur bwt n pweI ]khu kbIr smJweI ]3]3]: Bin asathhan goo lavaeree. Paiddae bin baatt ghanaeree. Bin sathigur baatt n paaee. Kahu kabeer samajhaaee ||3||3||: Without udders, the cow gives milk. Without traveling, a long journey is made. Without the True Guru, the path is not found. Kabeer utters this understanding. ||3||3||>>>> Here again we have more thought provoking statements. This cow of Maya is without udders, therefore, she cannot provide the milk (or Happiness). However, she lures this mind into the milk of enchanting objects of the mirage-like world. The long journey mentioned is the vicious cycle of coming and going (repeated birth and death). Kabeer Jee says that without Satguru, the true path of life is not found. He utters this understanding or Wisdom to us, the Kali Yugee Jeeva.

Now, let's attempt to relate the foregoing to the current world situation on a gross material plane. Many of us, particularly those who live in the big cities, probably never see a cow in life but consume her milk the entire life. The homogenized milk sold in containers in the food stores has long shelf-life, and can last several days in the kitchen refrigerator. The dry milk (or the powder milk) has even longer shelf-life. No need to keep cow at home — the milk is available without touching the cow or her udders! Also, in dairy farms, cows are milked using new innovative technologies consisting of automatic milking systems. People travel thousands of miles between continents and into the space, without moving from the seats of an aircraft or a space-shuttle.

Clearly, it's remarkable as to how this Shabad that was written several centuries ago depicts conditions of the current time we live in with such a pinpoint accuracy! Amazing indeed! Isn't it?

There is a similar Shabad of Baabaa Nanak in Raaga Aasaa on page 349 of the SGGS. Striking similarity between these two Shabads is pretty obvious, and how accurately both of them portray the nature of the gross world we are currently living in is also incredible! Please note that Baabaa Nanak in his Shabad also uses the words (" kil kw Bwau: Kali Kaa Bhaaou").

— T. Singh
www.gurbani.org


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Updated on Tuesday, August 12, 2008 8:54 AM (PST)

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