WORRY

ਬਹੁ ਚਿੰਤਾ ਚਿਤਵੈ ਆਪੁ ਨ ਪਛਾਨਾ ॥: Bahu chintaa chitavai aapu n pashaanaa:
With the mind distracted by acute worry,
one cannot recognize his own (True self, Mool...). (sggs 159).
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Worry (ਚਿੰਤਾ - Chintaa) is opposite of the Bhagati, Shabad-Vichaar, Naam-Simran, etc. Hence if one worries he cannot be a worshipper, a devotee or a Bhagat at the same time. As both worship and worry are incompatible, they don't and cannot coexist — worry is the "filthy" habit of the unintelligent mind (Mayaic intellect) thus demoniac, whereas the Bhagati is "purity" hence divine. Concurrently, worry is considered by the Gurbani and the medical professionals to be the source of man's overall unhappiness, anxiety, pains and sorrows. Therefore, the Gurbani's (Sri Guru Granth Sahib, SGGS) edict is to live a worry-free life. Further, the Gurbani goes to the extent saying that not only while awake but also in sleep we should be free of worry! Because one consumed by the plethora of worry cannot find peace even in his dreams! So Baabaa Nanak says: "It's useless to worry and struggle to death."

Worry and pyre have one thing in common: they both burn the body. But the difference is that a pyre burns the dead body whilst the worry burns the alive body! Arising due to a response to some vague threat or stress, worry is a feeling of anxiety, insecurity, frustration, doubt, nervousness, sad or sorrowful thought, foreboding and neuroses. Worry provokes the dark shadow of fear. When disturbed this fear causes anger, leading to resentment and envy.

Worry is a great enemy of our ability to live a healthy life physically, socially, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. It not only impedes our ability to be creative or think clearly, but it also leads to chronic ailments, emotional stress, agitation, chaos, turbulent, depression, hypertension, restlessness, difficulty concentrating, fatigue, irritability, bitterness, muscle tension, insomnia, uneasiness, panic symptoms, alcohol and drug abuse, premature aging and early death. These are some of the illnesses that are so widespread in the world today.

False ego has many faults such as lust, anger, greed, emotional attachment, self-conceit, jealousy, stubborn mindedness, and their numerous variations. Worrying, slandering, engaging in unmeaning ritual, wearing religious robes, etc., are some of the variations of the false ego's faults. Thus worry is caused by the distorted vision of the off balanced mind or material consciousness. In such physical identity one takes his body-frame as the real Self. In a futile bid to satisfy the never-ending "hunger and thirst" of the senses we live with anxiety day and night. More the material wealth or possessions we have more we worry. On the other hand, one who has little, wanders around in anxiety searching for more. Hence both "haves" and "have-nots" worry and suffer. Only the one liberated from both conditions is said to be truly at peace.

As indicated in the Gurbani, the worse of all worries is the household anxiety, which is the source of man's repeated pain and delusion. Regardless if one is householder or otherwise, worry and related anxiety affect all of us at some point in our lives. Additionally, it touches on many different aspects of our lives. As a result, we end up spending tremendous amount of time and energy worrying which produces no results. Most things we worry about don't even happen; but we still torment ourselves with disturbing thoughts and worry about them! Thus, worry is an unproductive and wastefully extravagant pastime of the instinctive mind. It's similar to a negative spiral; the more time and energy we spend worrying, the deeper we get into it. It feeds on itself.

Worry takes us away from our Mool (Source, Origin, Jot...): our Essential Nature. "With the mind distracted by acute worry, one cannot recognize his own (True self, Mool...)", says the Gurbani. In other words, worry being the attachment to the bewitching and mirage-like worldliness, there can be no union between the falsehood and the Truth. Falsehood has to leave our mind for the Truth to rekindle. Worry is chaos, which does not let us perceive our (True self, Mool...). Therefore, to realize the Mool within, we are urged by the Gurbani to make ourselves free of the tormenting disturbances caused by the worry and related anxiety.

Worry can be likened to a swing, which will give you something to do but it won't get you anywhere. Instead of living in the eternity of the present moment (NOW), we worry about the past and the future knowing well that worry can't change the past but it can certainly ruin the NOW. With the present thus ruined, most of us end up worrying about the future than prepare for it. Irrespective of whether we worry or not, in a few hours "today" will become "yesterday" and "tomorrow" will again become "today". In other words, today is the tomorrow we all worried about yesterday! Clearly, the habit of worry is totally illogical.

According to the Wise ones, worry generally arises from two situations: (1) situations that are inevitable and (2) situations that are remediable. As the name implies, the inevitable situations are those which cannot be avoided, evaded, escaped or resisted. Hence there is no sense worrying about worries originating from inevitable situations because there is nothing we can do about them, except keep smiling. Similarly, we need not worry about the worries springing from situations that are remediable because such situations can be remedied by right actions and right effort. Now let us pause for a moment and think — do we really need to worry about anything? No wise man will do. But we still worry; for we are inept, dull and wretched. In fact, to worry over almost everything has become not only our habit but also a fashion. For example, if someone is worry-free he is looked down in today's society as an irresponsible or careless person. On the other hand, if a person foolishly worries over every little thing he can imagine, we consider him responsible, sincere and respectable person! What a travesty of Truth!

Since everything in this world is changeable, fleeting, unstable or impermanent, the Gurbani repeatedly reminds us it's not worth worrying about fleeting objects of the world. But we lack in spiritual knowledge (Aatam Giaan), self-integration or self-unfoldment. Consequently, we do not have much faith and self-confidence in the Divine Creator, the Protector of the Universe, who resides within the bosom of each and everyone of us, "here" and "now". As indicated in the Gurbani, we have superimposed the false ego ("I-ness") on our Unconditioned Nature (Joti Svaroop) which is worry-free. The Mool is not wanting anything. When there is no want, there is no worry. Hence it's all in the mind.

That is to say, when the mind abides in the Mool within, we are worry-free. To the contrary, when the mind abides in the false ego, we are worry-full. In other words, we can worry a lot or choose not to.

Thus, it's the individual who creates worry himself and it's only he who can undo it by letting himself loose after being tied up as a dog for so long. Nobody else can do it for him. This is what the Gurbani eludes to when it says: "One who comes to abide in the Carefree Being in his mind — one's True Nature — nothing will ever worry him."; or "He Himself makes the mortals worry, and He Himself takes the worry away." So, if we intend to be worry-free, the Gurbani's advice is to surrender mentally our falsehood to the Divine Consciousness within, in love and dedication. When so surrendered unconditionally, one takes life as it presents itself to him (Hukam or Bhaanaa Mannanaa), without worrying about the good or bad omens.

The preceding great words of eternal assurance can revive in a spiritual student the fount of enthusiasm, self-confidence, faith, self-discipline, self-control, spontaneity, inner perfection with which one can meet Maya (ignorance, false ego, illusion, etc.) head-on.

We're human beings, the crown-jewel of the creation, not animals. We are time and again reminded by the scriptures and the men of light that we don't have to live in worry, or to let worry rules our lives. If we can change our clothes, jobs, friends and spouses, why we cannot change ourselves! Coping successfully with worry involves taking deliberate action with strong will to free oneself from the falsehood — it takes a conscious choice, a decision to change, and lots of hard work to remove desires and fear. If the habit of worry is left unchecked, after a time it becomes stubborn and responds less and less to any ordinary treatments.

Thus, to realize our Mool Source...), we are advised to guard against the phantom of worry and become fearless. Worry, fear or repeated pain and delusion apply to one's identification with the material consciousness. A person in Pure Consciousness has no fear for he does not have to worry about the material necessities of life; and he needs not be anxious, because when he removes the darkness of falsehood from his heart, he feels full, contented and completely satisfied. This is the essence of the teachings of the scriptures. By studying scriptures, one can become a soul completely surrendered to the Divine Nature within and engage himself in pure devotion. As the Divine Essence takes charge, one becomes completely free from all kinds of materialistic endeavors and related worries. A person in Spiritual Consciousness is always transcendental to the material modes of nature (Maya). He has no expectations for the result of the work entrusted to him, because he is above false ego and its devastating faults. Still, he is always enthusiastic till the completion of such work. Hence he does not worry about the distress, hurdles or obstacles related to undertaking. He does not care for success or failure; for he is equal in both distress and happiness, and insult and praise. This is the state of ultimate goodness.

We all are born with the Transcendental Qualities that are conducive to liberation from the worldliness. However — due to superimposition of the demoniac qualities of false ego (falsehood) unto our Mool, the Divine Qualities remain dormant within, a potential waiting to be awakened by the seeker at the end of an arduous search. Constant Shabad-Vichaar can help us awaken our Divine Nature within. As our falsehood thins out, our hearts will be able to reflect the Light of the Mool; the state of complete tranquillity or the ultimate peace whose surface is disturbed by not even the ripple of a wave of desires and fear. In other words, once the superimposition (false ego or ignorance of the Mool) is removed, the Substratum (i.e., Mool) alone remains! So the Gurbani roars at us to get up, roll our sleeves, and win a total victory over worry!

— T. Singh
www.gurbani.org


Updated on Friday, May 4, 2012 1:46 PM (PST)

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